Have you ever dated somebody who is always on the go? Maybe they are focused on their career, work long hours or travel a lot for work. Whatever the case may be, dating a model can be erratic. We high power executive businessmen have full schedules already and finding time to go on dates with good looking women can seem virtually impossible. This is where matchmaking services can come in handy.
If you make $200,000 a year, you are successful, and those of us that are successful have employees and our daily lives to manage. We are busy, and because of this there is a shift in priorities when it comes to love and work. Work always tends to win, while love takes a backseat. Of course, even though our financial security comes first, the need to find love is there, and so we keep looking for our perfect match. If you seek a model quality woman, follow these top 5 dating tips.
1. Timing is everything
It takes a lot of patience and understanding to date an executive businessman. So we need to have a woman that is not insecure or needy, but rather who is self-sufficient and caring. A good relationship takes a lot of effort for both parties to nurture and build. Although it’s a lot of work, it can be well worth your time if you see something special within that person.
2. Start Off Casual
Take your time to feel the gal’s character out. Go on a number of coffee or lunch dates and get to know the person. Focus on the conversation and see if you can understand her lifestyle. Find ways in which you can relate to each other and make a connection. This will also give you an idea as to how busy your date really is and how open he or she really is to a relationship should the feelings develop.
Sometimes women will say they are busy, but really they are using it as an excuse to cover the fact that they are really just looking for a sugar daddy, or a booty call rather than a relationship, and are afraid of commitment, or simply not that into you.
Measure the level of exchange. Just because it’s casual doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be a healthy level of give and take. After a few dates and conversations, you should have a better understanding as to whether a busy schedule is just a sign of reluctance or if there is a genuine interest to connect on a more romantic level. At that point, make a decision and see if this is something you want to explore.
3. Be Realistic
Should you decide on exploring the relationship, you will want to make sure that you have realistic expectations when getting started. If both parties are on the same page about moving forward, you will need to be certain that all expectations are laid out on the table and discussed. Make sure that you communicate your needs and listen to theirs.
Also, make sure you are honest about your comfort level. If you will be out of town on business for half of the month, or is only able to see her on the weekends, are you going to be okay with that? Are you certain that she would be loyal? What type of commitment will you be able to make to her? If you are not ready for marriage, then you need to tell her that you need more time too, and she needs to be the type to be comfortable, and if you are ready to be married then you should see if this is something that she wants.
4. Make The Most of Your Time Together
In the early stages of dating, scheduling will be crucial. There are 24 hours in a day and sometimes, you have work to find ways to be more efficient with the time you do have available. You clearly understand the value of time so when you do have time together, focus on having fun and enjoying each other’s company.
Make it a point to create exciting and memorable moments. The more intimate, the better because this is time you can use to nurture the relationship that is forming. Not every date has to be extravagant and over the top. Simplicity can be bliss for someone who deals with a high-pressure work environment. By now you should have an idea of some things that make her tick. Use it to your advantage and she will appreciate it.
5. Use Technology
Dating someone who is constantly on the go can be hard. Thank goodness for cell phones and 4G because now you have almost every tool in your tech arsenal to bridge the gap. Texting, instant messaging, pictures, and video chat are all great tools for bridging the gap. Chances are that they are already using these tools for work so getting them to engage won’t be that difficult if they are considering making things work with you.
Don’t underestimate the power of a phone call. Even if you can only chat for a little bit or if you have to leave a voicemail, hearing your voice can still put a smile on her face. At least you are making an effort and if the action is returned, you know that she is making an effort too. Using technology in a friendly, sweet and caring manner can remind the lady you are interested in, that you are thinking about her, and what woman doesn’t like that?
And here is a bonus tip. Whether it’s flowers. chocolates, or a gift certificate to a spa, women always love simple gifts that say you care. Go get her tiger!